How Do You Choose a Cemetery?

Thinking about matters of death and dying whether about oneself or a loved one is never fun but alas, it is a part of life and all good things must eventually come to an end. For many, that end comes to a final resting place in a cemetery. But how do you choose a cemetery and what considerations do you need to think about? 

Where Are the People You Love? 

Do you want to be buried alongside or near your relatives who have passed before you? Does your family have a family burial plot? Is it important to you that your loved ones visit your gravesite and show signs of remembrance with displays of flowers or other memorabilia? 

Many people move away from their nuclear family and the place of their birth yet still want to be permanently united in death in the same cemetery or at least in the same town. They may have chosen to live their adult life elsewhere but still desire to return to their roots upon their death. 

For others, returning to their nuclear family isn't important. Instead, they would rather be laid to rest in the community they called home as an adult, the place where they built the foundation of their life, career, and family. 

Others still prefer to be buried or interred at a cemetery that has special meaning to them. Perhaps a favorite vacation spot or a place that holds a special meaning for you is more important than proximity to your dead relatives or the convenience of your family visiting your grave. 

Are You Religious? 

If your faith is important to you, you may wish to be laid to rest in your church or other house of worship's consecrated burial grounds. Each religion has its own doctrines and traditions that govern its cemeteries and the handling of remains. Check with your faith-based institution for assistance in making your final resting place cemetery plans. 

Are You a Veteran? 

Many retired U.S. service members are quite proud of their commitment and dedication to their country. They may also feel a deep kinship to their fellow veterans. In addition to Arlington National Cemetery in Virginia, the Veterans' Administration maintains many other cemeteries for Armed Forces veterans. As with most things related to the federal government, the request for burial and the process can take a while, so be sure to look into the requirements as soon as possible.